crazy on the corner

Just what I wanted to see on my way into see my breast cancer surgeon who saved my life four years ago. Shoo, fly crazy on the corner….

  

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four years

my mother and I flying a kite on the beach in Ocean City , New Jersey circa 1969 or 1970 (I think)

Today is a big day for me. It has been four years. This time, four years ago today I was being prepped for my breast cancer surgery.

I was fine when I woke up this morning, but have gotten progressively and oddly emotional . But they are happy tears.

Maybe today it is oddly apropos that I have another milestone and item off my bucket list: a little while from now I hang a photography show of all my work in a local restaurant. So I guess that meets the definition of a solo photography show, huh? 

If you want to see my photography and live in Pennsylvania, the images will hang the month of June at Christopher’s A Neighborhood Place on King Street in the Borough of Malvern.

Four years. Here I am looking forward. Mammogram later this week. Get your mammograms ladies.

Have a great day!

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the cycle of breast cancer: there is always someone else getting diagnosed and having surgery….

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Today Food Network star/show host and author Sandra Lee had her breast cancer surgery.

I have to admit she has handled this with grace, style and a positive attitude and in her own words from May 14th :

Controversy and confusion have always been a part of breast cancer diagnosis and treatment — and I’m learning all about that on a personal level since my own diagnosis. But please don’t let the sea of opinions cloud your own judgment, and get yourself screened. Don’t think because it’s not in your family you don’t need to be concerned. 5 to 10% of women diagnosed with breast cancer had the disease in their family. So 90 to 95 % were like me — with no family history.

 

She is through her surgery and in recovery and doing well according to media quotes from her boyfriend, New York Governor Andrew Cuomo. Like many women I now know, she opted for a double mastectomy.  According to her staff via Facebook, if you wish to send her a get well card, you ma do so to P.O. Box #3920, New York, NY 10185-3920.

There are so many people who happen to be celebrities who get diagnosed with breast cancer and well, are very annoying.  Sandra Lee, much like women’s fiction author Elin Hilderbrand have just handled this like…well…regular women. They have been human and honest and even humorous at times.

Here I am but a couple weeks away from my 4th cancerversary. I still consider myself one of the lucky ones. Some days are better than others, but heck I am around to complain about the bad days and celebrate the rest of them.

Life is what you make of it. You always think you know what is going to happen and then god or fate or whatever higher power you believe in throw in a plot twist.

Celebrate ladies. We are still around! Get well soon Sandra Lee!

 

 

 

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some days are better than others

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Heavy sigh.

Not having a good Monday.  Yes I have made all my appointments. But here I am in yet another week starting out feeling blue and useless and tired and constantly on the verge of tears. Sleep is also not my consistent friend.

I have no rational or external reason for this mood.  Today was unusually warm for this time of year and that I did not do well with that aspect of the day. Also today? Umpteenth call to creepy Joyce Meyer Ministries. Someone keeps signing me up for her brand of God.

But seriously, I am just so sick of the Tamoxifen/menopause moods. Unless you are experiencing this I don’t think you really get it.

It’s hard.

And I tried to explain how I was feeling to a certain someone who gets to live with this stuff along with me and it wasn’t easy.  I don’t think he understands. How could he. Not angry, just frustrated. Now I feel more on the verge of useless for no reason tears.

I am so sick of this.  I do my best to rise above and think positive but some days I feel like an alien lives inside me.

It sucks. It just sucks.  Ahh to be young and gay…instead of feeling about one hundred and seventy two. And with these mood swings often comes the almost inability to get through days and concentrate. That in and of itself is exhausting.

Tomorrow is another day Miss Scarlett, tomorrow is another day.  Eye on the prize is four years cancer free in just a few short weeks.

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survivor shaming

  I just approved a comment written by a woman who claims to be a breast cancer survivor. Apparently she took issue with one of the posts I wrote about what I feel are scammy and not helpful breast cancer “charities”. I am not linking back her particular comment, although it has provided the impetus for today’s post.

Every breast cancer survivor and patient is different just like no two cancers are hundred percent the same. This blog has been about my journey for the past four years, and will probably continue to be about my journey for years to come. Breast cancer is no “one and done even” even if you never get a recurrence. It’s something you live with. It’s how you handle what you’re living with that get you through. 

I write this blog because it keeps me real. I’m grateful and honored that I have been able to help some people with their journeys by expressing my own here. Don’t throw up on my blog and go all judging on me. You aren’t living in my head, walking in my shoes, and I don’t share everything that I am going through every day.

I have worked really hard to remain positive throughout this journey, and maybe I should write more about the days that are not so positive. 

I will admit that lately I have been struggling. I went back to work after taking time off and I am fortunate and blessed that I can set my own schedule. But what I am discovering even a few years post surgery and post radiation my new reality is my brain is no longer the same. Menopause and tamoxifen are taking their toll. I refuse to let either get the best of me and I will remain on my positive path but there are some days I am just frustrated. 

Some days I have zero energy or bizarre aches and pains or like today a hard time concentrating. I feel like a total wimp admitting these things. Some days I look in the mirror and I just want to cry. This disease does attack the core of your femininity. And while most of the time I am okay there are some days I just wish I could rewind the clock. But I can’t. 

The upside is that for every bad day I work through I know I am rewarded with many blessings and many good days ahead. But it just irritates this not out of me when I get one of these comments from some random person out there in Internet land thinks they can know or judge me.

One thing that really irritated me is this woman’s pronouncement that I must’ve been one of those women that was able to pay for everything having to do with breast cancer easy peasy. News flash, not that it is anyone’s business but my own, I am still paying for my radiation bill. 

And every once in a while when I think some procedure, surgery, or test is done and paid for and finished I see that my insurance company and the hospital system are still wrangling over who’s paying for what.

But there’s only so much I can control. So reluctantly I have had to learn to roll with it.

I have spent the last few years feeling like every time I turn around I have to go see a doctor or have a test. Subconsciously I think it had gotten to me a little because I realize this week when I was going to see my oncologist that I had forgotten to schedule a mammogram first.

I’m tired of not sleeping and I’m tired of hot flashes. But I am also mindful of the fact that I am grateful to God to be alive. But the way I have handled my cancer journey is not necessarily the way everyone is going to handle their personal journey. And I realize that but at the same time I am not going to put up with random survivors rolling up on my blog and telling me how I should be or trying to survivor shame me.

This woman also made this bizarre comment about her breasts trying to kill her. Lady, our breasts are trying to kill us, they have a disease inside them which tried to harm us.  I do not think my breasts tried to kill me, they just happen to have something bad grow within which was removed.

As I approach my fourth anniversary of being cancer free I am mindful of my blessings. But like every other woman who has had breast cancer I have my bad days and my fears of recurrence. Unfortunately this is natural. It’s not pleasant but I keep moving forward. 

June 1st is my next cancerversary. Yay me! Thanks for stopping by today.

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fight smart



Painting by American Artist Richard E Miller (1875-1943), and titled Reflections at the Dressing Table.

Okay I’m going to say something here which will undoubtedly ruffle feathers.  It has to do with tamoxifen and other breast cancer drugs, oncotype scores, and taking yourself off your meds….without discussing it with your care team.

Do I like what tamoxifen has done to my body? Hell no. But I don’t want to die from a breast cancer recurrence either. So I will stay on this as long as my doctors say.

Radiation gave me osteopenia, so after a couple years on tamoxifen and a full hysterectomy I was not a candidate for aromatase inhibitors….because they contribute to bone density loss among other things.

One of my friend’s mothers was a test patient for tamoxifen when it was first being introduced over 30 years ago. She is living proof that the drug works.  I don’t believe I’m part of some pharmaceutical conspiracy other then I think the cost of drugs a ridiculous even when you have health insurance that supposed to be good.

I am sure about one thing: there are no easy answers when it comes to breast cancer. But I would rather be alive. So when I see threads of conversation in breast cancer support groups where women essentially musing to take themselves off of their meds, it upsets me greatly. I also have to bite my tongue and resist the urge to say anything most of the time.

Adverse reactions  breast cancer meds like tamoxifen, even those ones our friends and family can’t see are very real. Which is why I also get upset when you have ignorant people who have not been through breast cancer, let alone ever taken a breast cancer drug like tamoxifen and they say things like the side effects are psychosomatic, or in layman’s terms made up in our heads. Anyone who says that to you is a truly ignorant person and you should feel free and no uncertain terms to tell them that. 

They are as bad as the ones who come to you with the names of several plastic surgeons when you’re barely out of surgery.  I had that happen to me and it was very upsetting. I didn’t even know at that point if they had gotten all the cancer out and if I was going to be having radiation treatment or radiation and chemotherapy. I felt crappy and I know these people were trying to help but all they did was make me cry when no one was around.  

Trust me, I suffer with the whole self body image worse after breast cancer. I look in the mirror and I have breasts going into different directions because one is only part of a breast at this point.  But , I still think I made the right decision when I decided to not have breast reconstruction. I know in my heart of hearts that I am just not a woman destined to have reimagined boobs. 

I also wish to remind those who talk about their oncotype scores, especially when they are low. Mine is low – it’s a 10 – but my score and everyone else’s is predicated on the presumption that I am going to have treatment and take breast cancer meds as a preventative.

I know taking these drugs is hard – I’m doing it and I am looking at a potential of 10 years – they will reevaluate me at 5 years which is in a year. But we shouldn’t be playing doctors on ourselves

So if you need a change of meds or you really can’t tolerate the meds you are on, for the love of God don’t just take yourself off something. Go to your doctor. For example, the different generics of the breast cancer meds affect women differently and it’s not necessarily because of the actual drug it’s things like the binders and inert additives that cause the reactions. I discovered that the when I went from having annoying side effects of tamoxifen to I really felt sick – they had changed my generic, and the formulation is not 100% the same from generic to generic. So needless to say at my local pharmacy there is now a note from my oncologist and my hospital system that I only be given specific generics. I actually wrote about this when it happened someplace on this blog.

My final comment, is that we all have to remember that each cancer is different in each person. Sometimes  we see people talking about their reactions to meds, and there is a very good chance it won’t necessarily affect you or affect you in the same way. 

I discovered my inner courage fighting this disease, and I urge all of you to remember that you have that steely core within you. Breast-cancer hits the core of our very femininity, no doubt about it.  Not trying to downplay it. I just believe that every woman needs to make smart decisions, not necessarily ones based on vanity.

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is ignorance bliss?



I wasn’t going to write about this or at least not right away. But now I am, because the ignorance out there is astounding. Is ignorance blisss when it comes  to female cancers? I don’t think so.

I am not a big fan of some of the celebrities or reality show types who publicly disclosed their breast cancer and breast cancer choices in the past. A lot of them just use it as free PR for their career and that is distasteful to me.

Angelina Jolie Pitt has used her celebrity for good and almost everything she has done including breast cancer. She has a very personal connection to the disease called cancer  given her familial history and loss.

All the irony is, almost a year to the day of my own full hysterectomy comes her story in the New York Times.

The Opinion Pages  | OP-ED CONTRIBUTOR 

Angelina Jolie Pitt: Diary of a Surgery

LOS ANGELES — TWO years ago I wrote about my choice to have a preventive double mastectomy. A simple blood test had revealed that I carried a mutation in the BRCA1 gene. It gave me an estimated 87 percent risk of breast cancer and a 50 percent risk of ovarian cancer. I lost my mother, grandmother and aunt to cancer.
I wanted other women at risk to know about the options. I promised to follow up with any information that could be useful, including about my next preventive surgery, the removal of my ovaries and fallopian tubes.
I had been planning this for some time. It is a less complex surgery than the mastectomy, but its effects are more severe. It puts a woman into forced menopause. So I was readying myself physically and emotionally, discussing options with doctors…Last week, I had the procedure: a laparoscopic bilateral salpingo-oophorectomy. There was a small benign tumor on one ovary, but no signs of cancer in any of the tissues….It is not easy to make these decisions. But it is possible to take control and tackle head-on any health issue. You can seek advice, learn about the options and make choices that are right for you. Knowledge is power.


And there is the key: knowledge is power. Yet given some of the people leaving comments under major media outlet articles you would think we were living in the stone ages.

Take the USA Today article which says in part:

While advances in genetic testing have given people such as Angelina Jolie a wealth of information about their risk of disease, science offers them far fewer ways to act on that knowledge.
Thanks to sophisticated genetic screenings, Jolie was able to find out that she carries a mutation in a gene called BRCA1, which dramatically increases her risk of breast and ovarian cancer.
But the range of prevention strategies available to her — including medications to reduce the risk of both cancers and screenings to find breast tumors early — was much more limited.USA TODAY
Testing for ovarian cancer: What you should know
In the end, she opted for the oldest of all cancer treatments, surgery, which reduces cancer risk for women like her more than any other therapy.


Here are a couple of the comments:



Those comments made me think and whisper quite a few four letter words. Have these guys ever had breast cancer?  I have. Many of my readers have, or friends or loved ones have. And there are no “easy decisions”. Their ignorance is astounding and actually typical for POS Neanderthals.

 I had a full hysterectomy a year ago now it was to prevent further cancers. if I hadn’t had the hysterectomy I was indeed headed towards secondary cancers of reproductive organs based on what they took out of me. So they can just sit down and shut their mouths because they have no idea what women go through when it comes to this. Maybe if someone told them they had to cut off their penis or testicles they might get it but even then I find it doubtful.

I didn’t want to have to go the route of a full hysterectomy, but I’m glad I did. Even if to be brutally honest I hate menopause. Menopause brought on by breast cancer sucks. Women in my family had sleep issues with menopause but I’m the only one that ever has  had hot flashes. I also don’t like the emotional changes and I hate the fact that my skin is dry like the Sahara desert most of the time. 

But the alternative was far more unpleasant. I am alive. And I have further reduced my chance for a recurrence of breast cancer and occurance  of a secondary  cancer.

And the giant fibroids and septating cysts are gone.

I applaud Mrs. Jolie Pitt for using her celebrity for good. She is raising awareness in a way that it needs to be raised. Menopause is not a dirty word anymore than breast cancer and neither is hysterectomy. We need more awareness on the topics, more choices, more medical care, more insurance coverage and fewer ignorant  comments from Neanderthal armchair keyboard  quarterbacks.

For another article on the topic read this one from the Atlantic:

Their Bodies, Ourselves

She’s also breaking a cultural barrier, though. In her essays—the one published today is the sequel to a piece Jolie wrote in 2013, detailing her decision to get a double mastectomy—Jolie has emphasized the fact that she still feels, despite and even because of the surgeries, fully feminine. “I do not feel any less of a woman,” she wrote in 2013. “I feel empowered that I made a strong choice that in no way diminishes my femininity.” Today’s essay echoes that sentiment: “I feel feminine,” she notes, “and grounded in the choices I am making for myself and my family.”
This is significant, and not just because Jolie’s openness is bringing normally taboo subjects—menopause, mastectomies—into the public sphere. There’s also the fact that Hollywood has, particularly in its notoriously troublesome dealings with women, emphasized a divide between beauty and health. Or, more specifically, between health and “health.” The media-industrial complex, with its emphasis on images and consumerism, has treated beauty not just as evidence of well-being, but also as something that can be obtained at the expense of it. It has sold us, and particularly women, on beautifying solutions like Botox (the injection of toxic botulism into one’s skin), tanning (UV radiation increasing one’s risk of developing malignant melanoma), and plastic surgery, with all its attendant dangers. It has emphasized, in other words, beauty—which doubles, often, as youth—over longevity….Jolie’s advocacy is especially powerful, though, because the issues she’s discussing—and the issues she is, more importantly, encouraging a discussion about—are intimately connected to cultural assumptions about youth and desirability. Jolie is oversharing, in a way, but it’s a productive form of oversharing—far removed from the vapidities of the Kardashian Selfie or the self-indulgences of Celebrity Instagram. Jolie, in talking about her surgery, is also emphasizing the inextricable connection between inner health and outer beauty. “I feel feminine,” Jolie writes in today’s essay. That declaration is preceded, tellingly, by this one: “I will look for natural ways to strengthen my immune system.”


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good-night angel: lisa bonchek adams rest in peace



This morning I sit I tears. Lisa Bonchek Adams has died. Heaven has gained a true angel and those of us who are mere mortals have lost an amazing woman who inspired us greatly to just do better and be better.

Lisa and I had quite a few friends in common as it turns out, only I was not aware of her until I joined the sometimes dreaded pink sisterhood of Breast Cancer survivors four years this coming  June 1st.

Lisa lived with metastatic breast cancer, and last evening she drifted away from her friends, family, and all of the people like me who so admired her as a woman, writer, inspiration , friend, mother, wife, daughter, human being….and so much more.

I wrote about her a little over a year ago when two “writers” (in quotes because what they did to this day I find unconscionable) decided to take Lisa to task for writing about her cancer journey. Yes I am speaking about the scribbling Kellers.

And for a husband and wife who wrote for different media outlets (him, Bill Keller formerly of The New York Times and her, Emma G. Keller formerly of The Guardian) to tag team this woman because of how she chooses to discuss or even deal with her cancer is just so off the charts wrong to me.

You see, it is not the fact that they had a differing opinion from Lisa Bonchek Adams on how she dealt with her cancer, it’s the fact that these two wrote for monster media conglomerates, are married, and oopsies and both wrote about this? Talk about pillow talk!  Mrs. Keller actually resigned from The Guardian a couple months after this occurred last January. Mr. Keller left The New York Times for something else around the same time his wife left her former paper. He is now the editor of the Marshall Project, but I digress. This is about Lisa, not how horrible two journalists verbally treated a women then living with stage 4 cancers. And I apologize for working them into my post, but what they did caused a fabulous human being pain the last year of her life.

Amy Wu of the Huffington Post wrote about Lisa just a few weeks ago and she said:

Illness can find a channel for expressing hope, meaning, inspiration and knowledge exchange through blogging as a communication form. When I attended a conference for young breast cancer survivors last fall in Philadelphia, it struck me that many of the women maintained a blog devoted to her journey or to the cause. I gave them a nickname — the pink bloggers…..Despite the fear, anxiety and pain related to the illness, the tons of the blogs are chatty and conversational tone as if the women were having a conversation with their best friend at a coffee shop. Mostly, and perhaps surprisingly the blogs are candid about the disease, and their names are front and center. These women’s journeys are very public, and I had yet to find a blog written under a pseudonym. Lisa Bonchek Adams blog) is entitled, “Writings on metastatic breast cancer, grief & loss, life, and family.” 

In a December post Adams, who has been battling breast cancer, updates her readers about her treatment (Adams has breast cancer, which metastisized to her brain), and involves another aggressive round of chemotherapy. The post goes into matter-of-fact detail about the details ad frequency of treatment, but also ends with a touch of humor. Adams ends her blog with, “I get foggy quickly so I hope this post made sense!” 
Humor is intertwined with sadness and fear too but in other forms of communication. An Oct. 24 post is a letter to her three young children. “No matter when, no matter how, I hope you will someday learn this powerful emotion I feel for you. You give me strength. You make me fight. You give me joy. You make my heart swell with pride.”

That was Lisa to a “T”. She was straightforward in her writing,  but kind and loving and showed great humor. And all in the face of the medical issues she faced. To women like me who have survived breast cancer or are somewhere in the journey of surgery and treatment, she was a hero to us.  She’s also just a remarkable woman who shared all her ups and downs and remained positive until the end.

To Lisa’s family, my heartfelt condolences. I am but a stranger to you, but through Lisa’s words I felt like I knew you all very well. Wishing you peace and love and all good things. After all, that’s what Lisa would have wanted… For all of us….sleep with the Angels, Lisa, the difficult part of your journey is over.

Here is what was on her website this morning:

Lisa Bonchek Adams: In Memorium March 6, 2015

The thousands upon thousands who knew and loved Lisa Bonchek Adams; whether in person or via Facebook, Twitter, or her website and blog read around the world; whether up close or from afar; will find it hard to believe that her steely will and indomitable spirit were finally overcome by the disease she had lived with for so many years.
Lisa died at home around 9:45 pm on Friday, March 06, 2015, surrounded by her entire family.
Lisa was cared for to the end by her beloved Dr. Chau Dang of Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center. Lisa specifically asked that anyone who wishes to honor her memory do so with a contribution to her fund for breast cancer research at MSKCC.
The Adams and Bonchek families send a heartfelt thank you to all for your love and support. We know that Lisa will always be a part of your lives, as she will be a part of ours.
Services consistent with her wishes will be arranged and announced here.
In keeping with Lisa’s wishes, this web site will be maintained as a resource of Lisa’s writings about metastatic breast cancer, grief and loss, life, and family.
“Find a bit of beauty in the world today. Share it. If you can’t find it, create it. Some days this may be hard to do. Persevere.”

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nevada’s michele fiore thinks breast cancer is a fungus?

There is dumb, there is dumber, and then there is a just a jackass. The Nevada politician who thinks the solution for rape is for “hot little girls” to carry automatic weapons (her words, truly) is at it again spreading her pearls of “wisdom” .

I did not think any female politician could be dumber and more offensive than Chrisitine O’Donnell and Sarah Palin, but taaaa taaaa daaa (or Taa- d’oh) here she is: Michele Fiore District 4 Assembleywoman from Nevada. Originally from Brooklyn she is a tried and true NUT JOB.

Why? Why am I writing about her or politics at all on a breast cancer blog? Because this woman has announced that cancer, like breast cancer is a fungus….and oh yeah, we can cure it with saltwater or baking soda.

I kid you not. This woman is cuckoo for cocoa puffs, yet there she sits in public elected office.

If this is the future of American politics, we all should be terrified. I don’t know how people like this get elected to public office but I do know that my breast cancer wasn’t caused by a freaking fungus. People like this are not fit to serve, and by the way, in case any of her supporters are reading, I am a registered Republican. This woman is not a Republican she’s an aberration of I’m not sure quite what.

If you are a cancer or breast cancer survivor or someone undergoing treatment for cancer  reading this post and think what she has said is as horrible as I do you can find Michele Fiore on Facebook and on Twitter under the handle @votefiore. She has a website www.votefiore.com and via her Nevada legislator web page.

She deserves no less than to be inundated with comments for cancer survivor sand cancer patients everywhere. But because she is a total kook try your best to be polite.

We canNOT as Americans keep allowing people like this to be elected to public office. Period. It does NOT matter what political persuasion they are they are undermining the fabric the pins our country together politically and in other ways.

Apparently in addition to everything else we must look at when we are electing people to public office, we need to see what their stand is on cancer. And with her, pick a topic, she is no stranger to welcome to Bizarreville controversy. (There was that million dollar issue at the end of 2014.)

There are lobbyists in this country for everything, so are there Breast Cancer Lobbyists? #BoobPAC ? Ladies,  it’s time to #VoteWithYourBreasts and politicians like Michele Fiori should not be reelected. Or elected in the first place.

I apologize for the rant it’s just that when I saw this simply couldn’t stand it, or keep my mouth shut. We have to speak up every time one of these creatures surfaces. Otherwise, as we all know, we pay for it somehow when we’re trying to get treatment or trying to get treatment paid for.

Below are links and excerpts from two articles about this so you see:

Washington Post: To Your Health

A lawmaker who believes saltwater and baking soda can cure cancer

 February 26 at 1:17 PM  http://platform.twitter.com/widgets/follow_button.10495f50328f320357081ee891e346f2.en.html#_=1425040800567&dnt=false&id=twitter-widget-0&lang=en&screen_name=abbyohlheiser&show_count=false&show_screen_name=true&size=m

Nevada Assemblywoman Michele Fiore said recently that she will propose a “Right to Try” bill in her state. But it’s not the bill itself that gained national attention. Instead, it was Fiore’s statement that she believes cancer is “a fungus” that can be cured by “flushing, let’s say, saltwater, sodium carbonate” through the body.
Just to be clear, right up front: Cancer is not a fungus. It is the uncontrolled division of abnormal human cells within the body. Saltwater cannot cure cancer.

 

GOP lawmaker sees cancer as a ‘fungus

By Steve Benen

…..the latest from Nevada Assemblywoman Michele Fiore (R), who has a proposal to change existing rules on end-of-life care.
Fiore, who operates a home health care business that sometimes passes payroll taxes onto the IRS, said she knew of friends who left the country to find end-of-life treatments that are not FDA-approved. And then the payoff:

“If you have cancer, which I believe is a fungus,” she began, citing a widely debunked theory that the American Cancer Society warns about, ”and we can put a pic line into your body and we’re flushing with, say, salt water, sodium cardonate [I think she means bicarbonate], through that line and flushing out the fungus. These are some procedures that are not FDA-approved in America that are very inexpensive, cost-effective.”
I see.

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politicizing cancer?

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One of my U.S. Senators is Pat Toomey. I am a Republican, but not a particular fan as he has always been a bit right of Attila the Hun. His views on what a woman can do with their bodies, terrifies me.

PFAW.org describes Senator Toomey thusly:

Toomey believes Roe v. Wade was wrongly decided, thinks abortion should be illegal and doctors who perform abortions should be jailed. In Congress he voted to prohibit Planned Parenthood from receiving federal funds even for non-abortion women’s health work.

So to suddenly receive junk political e-mails from the good Senator exhibiting a move to appear more user friendly and perhaps dare I say it centrist makes me wonder what’s up?

I would want to think, to hope this man’s motives were pure, but this thing captioned above as “Fighting Cancer” appears on the same email as other tug at heart strings topics like “Protecting Children” .

Methinks the good senator is starting to position himself for something.

So as a breast cancer survivor I think I can safely speak for other survivors when I say Senator Toomey, with all due respect, don’t you dare politicize cancer.

Toomey was also scored 25% by The American Public Health Association (APHA) on Health Issues.. I don’t know that he is wrong about everything having to do with the state of our healthcare in this country, but as a woman, even a Republican woman, this is not an elected official I have ever had faith or trust in since in the back of my head I have always felt he doesn’t necessarily respect women and their multi-faceted life roles in today’s world.

So Senator Toomey if you are truly talking about “fighting cancer” to support your wife and her mom, I am cool with that. BUT please don’t politicize cancer and use it to feather your political nest.

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